Ask nosy questions about peoples' personal lives

Everyone experiences disappointments and struggles in life. Don't ask people when we notice they could be struggling to make it up, planned or failure.

Asking a recently married couple, "When are you having a baby?"

Asking a divorced sister, "Why did you get divorced?"

Asking an unmarried sister, "When are you getting married?"

Asking a brother, "Where did you get the money to buy your car?"

Before asking such nosy questions remember that the Messenger of Allah (saw) said, "Part of the perfection of someone Islam is his leaving alone that which does not concern him."
[Narrated: Abu Huraira. Hadith hasan - Recorded by Tirmidhi]
Hassan bin Sinan*, once saw a house & asked a simple question, "When was this house built?" But he straightaway realized that he has asked a simple question and regretted of something which does not concern him. Subhan'Allah (in Arabic define for 'Allah is Perfect').

Do you think we would ask nosy questions about peoples' personal lives? Do we not feel any shame?

by Maulana Tariq Jamil
Maulana Tariq J. is a well known Islamic Scholar from Pakistan. He studied his Islamic education from Raiwind (Near Lahore ) Markaz of Tableeghi Jama'at.
* In old-time, he was living in around Muhammad Prophet (phub)'s the period of time.

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