Skip to main content

Posts

Showing posts from September, 2019

Ask nosy questions about peoples' personal lives

Everyone experiences disappointments and struggles in life. Don't ask people when we notice they could be struggling to make it up, planned or failure.  Asking a recently married couple, "When are you having a baby?" Asking a divorced sister, "Why did you get divorced?" Asking an unmarried sister, "When are you getting married?" Asking a brother, "Where did you get the money to buy your car?" Before asking such nosy questions remember that the Messenger of Allah (saw) said, "Part of the perfection of someone Islam is his leaving alone that which does not concern him."  [Narrated: Abu Huraira. Hadith hasan - Recorded by Tirmidhi]   Hassan bin Sinan* , once saw a house & asked a simple question, "When was this house built?" But he straightaway realized that he has asked a simple question and regretted of something which does not concern him. Subhan'Allah (in Arabic define for 'Allah is Perfect

13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do

Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life. By Amy Morin.  A psychotherapist, psychology instructor, keynote speaker, and the author of the bestselling book. Source: LifeHack. "13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do,"  https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/13-things-mentally-strong-people-dont.html Take a look at these 13 things that mentally strong people don’t do so that you too can become mentally stronger. 1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves Mentally strong people don’t sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. Instead, they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn’t always easy or fair. 2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power They don’t allow others to control them, and they don’t give someone else power over them. They don’t say things like, “My bos

Age matters!

A group of old friends, all aged about 40, discussed where they should meet for lunch for their reunion. Finally, it was agreed that they would meet at the Ocean View restaurant because the waitresses there were pretty. 🍺🍕🍷🍟🍥🍧🥂🍩🥮🍨 Ten years later, at age 50, the friends once again discussed where they should meet for lunch. Finally, it was agreed that they would meet at the Ocean View restaurant because the food was good and the wine selection was excellent. 🍾🍷🍺🥂🍕🍮🍻🍔🌭🥞 Ten years later, at age 60, the friends again discussed where they should meet for lunch. Finally, it was agreed that they would meet at the Ocean View restaurant because they could dine in peace and quiet and the restaurant had a beautiful view of the ocean. 🍢🍹🍸🍷🍻🍕🍨🍲🍧🍰 Ten years later, at age 70, the friends discussed where they should meet for lunch. Finally, it was agreed that they would meet at the Ocean View restaurant because the restaurant was wheelchair ♿ acce