Sasha K

Everyone experiences disappointments and struggles in life. Don't ask people when we notice they could be struggling to make it up, planned or failure.  Asking a recently married couple, "When are you having a baby?" Asking a divorced sister, "Why did you get divorced?" Asking an unmarried sister, "When are you getting married?" Asking a brother, "Where did you get the money to buy your car?" Before asking such nosy questions remember that the Messenger of Allah (saw) said, "Part of the perfection of someone Islam is his leaving alone that which does not concern him."  [Narrated: Abu Huraira. Hadith hasan - Recorded by Tirmidhi]   Hassan bin Sinan* , once saw a house & asked a simple question, "When was this house built?" But he straightaway realized that he has asked a simple question and regretted of something which does not concern him. Subhan'Allah (in Arabic define for 'Allah is Perfect...

Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life. By Amy Morin.  A psychotherapist, psychology instructor, keynote speaker, and the author of the bestselling book. Source: LifeHack. "13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do,"  https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/13-things-mentally-strong-people-dont.html Take a look at these 13 things that mentally strong people don’t do so that you too can become mentally stronger. 1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves Mentally strong people don’t sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. Instead, they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn’t always easy or fair. 2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power They don’t allow others to control them, and they don’t give someone else power over them. They don’t say things like, “My bos...

A group of old friends, all aged about 40, discussed where they should meet for lunch for their reunion. Finally, it was agreed that they would meet at the Ocean View restaurant because the waitresses there were pretty. 🍺🍕🍷🍟🍥🍧🥂🍩🥮🍨 Ten years later, at age 50, the friends once again discussed where they should meet for lunch. Finally, it was agreed that they would meet at the Ocean View restaurant because the food was good and the wine selection was excellent. 🍾🍷🍺🥂🍕🍮🍻🍔🌭🥞 Ten years later, at age 60, the friends again discussed where they should meet for lunch. Finally, it was agreed that they would meet at the Ocean View restaurant because they could dine in peace and quiet and the restaurant had a beautiful view of the ocean. 🍢🍹🍸🍷🍻🍕🍨🍲🍧🍰 Ten years later, at age 70, the friends discussed where they should meet for lunch. Finally, it was agreed that they would meet at the Ocean View restaurant because the restaurant was wheelchair ♿ acce...

Photo by  Priscilla Du Preez  on  Unsplash These are profound distinctions between intelligence and wisdom!  (but both are needed! 😉) 1. Intelligence leads to arguments.     Wisdom leads to settlements. 2. Intelligence is power of will.     Wisdom is power OVER  will. 3. Intelligence is heat, it burns.     Wisdom is warmth, it comforts. 4. Intelligence is pursuit of knowledge, it tires the seeker.     Wisdom is pursuit of truth, it inspires the seeker. 5. Intelligence is holding on.     Wisdom is letting go. 6. Intelligence leads you.     Wisdom guides you. 7. An intelligent man thinks he knows everything.     A wise man knows that there is still something to learn. 8. An intelligent man always tries to prove his point.     A wise man knows there really is no point. 9. An intelligent man freely gives unsolicited advice.     A wise man ke...

Photo by  Iulia Mihailov  on  Unsplash "I longed for marriage" I longed for marriage. and I got married... but life without children is deserting. Thus I longed to be blessed with children. and I got children... but within no time my small apartment made me uncomfortable. I therefore longed for bigger house with garden. Well, I got it, though with much efforts. Yes, I possessed a mansion, but my children have grown up by then Hence, I longed for them got married. I now have them married, yet official responsibilities give me fatigue Now I resorted to retirement, so to get some rest. Now I am retired, became single just as I was after graduation. After graduation I notice, I approached life, but now, I bid life farewell. Still I do have ambitions. I therefore longed for Quranic memorization... but my memory betrayed me. I longed to frequent fasting... yet my health condition won't allow me to do it. I longed for night devotion "Qiya...